The pity is because I see visual quotes posted professing how important honesty, love, integrity, family, friends, and loved ones are ... yet, I cannot help but wonder if they aren't in denial, of themselves.
Being offended is because there's a curiosity how someone can post words that are contrary to their actions in life. Some are hypocrites, as they deny you. You seem uncaring; although you hide it well. Gotta watch for wolves in sheep's clothing!
Fortunately (for me) I am capable of loving someone, without needing to be loved in return. We never know what life will deal us and however long or short a life is; it's all each one of us has on this earthly plane. The more negative emotions you spend time on, the more goodness and light you're missing.